~ないでください — please don’t…

1. Basic structure

FormStructureMeaningExample
Verb in ない-formVないでくださいPlease don't… / Please do not…ここでタバコを吸わないでください
Please don't smoke here.

2. Main meanings & detailed analysis

  • Expresses a polite request for someone not to do an action.
  • It is the negative form of ~てください (please do…), meaning "please don't do...".
  • Used to give a mild command or a polite reminder in conversation, instructions, or rules.
  • Mainly used with listeners of equal or lower status (such as friends, students, customers, etc.).

3. Example sentences

  • ここに入らないでください
    Please don't enter here.
  • このボタンを押さないでください
    Please don't press this button.
  • 私の話を途中で止めないでください
    Please don't interrupt me midway.
  • 夜遅くテレビを見ないでください
    Please don't watch TV late at night.
  • 泣かないでください
    Please don't cry.

4. Usage & nuance

  • More polite and gentle than “~な!” (a rough command).
  • Often used in signs, instructions, or when asking someone to avoid doing something.
  • In casual speech, it can be softened to ~ないでね or ~ないで.
    例:そんなこと言わないでね。→ Don't say that, okay.
  • Not used with nouns or adjectives – only with verbs.

5. Comparison & distinctions

PatternMeaningDifferenceExample
VてくださいPlease do…Requests that the action be performedここに座ってください
VないでくださいPlease don't do…Requests that the action not be performedここに座らないでください
VるなProhibited / Don't do it! (rough, commanding)Imperative form, used toward subordinates or in strong warnings触るな! (Don't touch!)

6. Additional notes

  • In notices and public signs, you often see: ~しないでください or ~は禁止です (Prohibited).
  • When you want to sound softer, you can use: ~ないようにしてください (Please try not to...).
  • At the JLPT N5 level, this is a basic pattern to express a polite negative request.

7. Variations & common phrases

  • ~ないでね: Don't do it, okay? (casual).
  • ~しないでくださいね: Please don't do it, okay? (polite, gentle).
  • ~ないようにしてください: Please try not to... (more formal).

8. Common mistakes & JLPT pitfalls

  • Incorrect ない-form conjugation: 話す → 話さないでください (correct), 話しないでください (incorrect).
  • Confusing it with the imperative “~な!” (rough, impolite).
  • Forgetting 「で」: ✕ 行かないください → ○ 行かないでください.
  • JLPT N5 often tests: choosing the correct polite negative request structure between ~てください and ~ないでください.

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